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Also another thing to think about, without over-analyzing the situation (which is the worst thing we can do), is that dorms are used for different reasons, and if I understand Kara correctly they mostly use their dorm for sleeping as has been previously said by them. That helps me, in my mind, to know that most of their activities are done so when not in the dorm. I have no doubt that days where they will spend most of the time in the dorm that Hara will be present. However, this is from a Western male perspective, and so I could be very culturally wrong. I like to look more at the positive ^^ Also, Dolla, if you find yourself in a bad situation in a dorm make sure that you talk to your hall director to get a switch in rooms. New people can have habits that will drive you nuts and make dorm life miserable, such as in my second year I had a pair of chain smokers who smoked marijuana daily and our room stunk horrifically. Nothing bad since then, though , best of luck with your first year!

I personally come from the United States and I have lived for the past three years in dorms/apartments with others, returning home occasionally for breaks. Although dorms have the appearance of bondage, they can at times overwhelm if you are too often in the same living quarters with people, and so it is nice to have a break from that. From my perspective I do not see this transition as an omen, rather something that could very well strengthen Hara's ability to cope and manage without the direct aid of her parents. That in and of itself strengthens the team as a whole, not weakens. I fully support her decision and wish Kara a nice long, and stress-free set of careers.